Today, I reflect on the incredible journey God has taken us on, Lady Kemz, Iyawo mi atata. These nine years have been a testimony of God’s grace, mercy, and faithfulness in our union. Through this marriage, I have come to know God in new and profound ways.
Let me share three of these lessons with you—though I suspect there’s a fourth hidden somewhere. I hope you discover it!
- A Perfect God Creates Perfect Unions Early in our marriage, Lady Kemz and I boldly declared, “Our marriage is perfect.” At the time, many found it hard to understand, as it’s common to hear, “No marriage is perfect.” But God gave us a different revelation, and we’ve held on to it unwaveringly for nine years: Everything a perfect God does is perfect.
- God’s Building Power Through Marriage In this season of life, I’ve witnessed God’s building dimension—using our union to shape, refine, and build us in ways I never imagined. Through our marriage, He has been perfecting our imperfections, making us Christlike, and equipping us to fulfill His end-time purposes. I now see marriage as one of God’s tools for sanctification and transformation.
- A Revelation of Divine Intimacy As I reflect on the closeness we share—the way we cherish each other and always long to be together—God has used this as a profound lesson for me. He showed me that the depth of intimacy we enjoy mirrors the kind of closeness He desires with His children. This understanding has transformed my walk with God, making me more intentional about seeking intimate, quality moments with Him.
The last nine years have been nothing short of phenomenal. Our union continues to grow sweeter and stronger, a living testament to Proverbs 4:18: “The path of the righteous is like the morning sun, shining ever brighter till the full light of day.”
Lady Kemz, Iyawo mi atata, I love you even more today than I did on the day this journey began. I am grateful to God for the love and life we share. You are my perfect partner, the one He designed just for me. Together, we reflect His perfection, and I wouldn’t have it any other way—it’s simply perfect.
Happy 9th Anniversary to us!
Ready for Love? Before the Aisle & After the Aisle Courses
Are you a single person dreaming of a fulfilling marriage? Or are you already married and looking to deepen your connection?
My wife, Ladykemz, and I have created two transformative courses designed to equip you with the knowledge and tools for a successful and joyful marital journey:
Before the Aisle: This course is specifically designed for singles. We delve into crucial topics like:
- Embrace singleness:Discover the joy and freedom of this season while preparing for a fulfilling future.
- Navigate courtship:Understand the purpose and key elements of a healthy courtship period.
- Find your perfect match:Eliminate confusion and toxic patterns to identify a partner who aligns with your values.
- Build a God-centered relationship:Learn the principles of healthy dating that honour God.
- Prepare for marriage:Gain practical tools for communication, conflict resolution, and building a strong foundation.
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After the Aisle: This course is tailored for married couples. We explore:
- Discover your marriage’s unique vision and purpose.
- Fuel intimacy and reignite the flame of love.
- Navigate conflict with healthy communication skills.
- Master your finances for a stronger partnership.
- Heal past hurts and build trust.
- Safeguard your marriage from external threats.
- And so much more!
Access the course via this link: https://selar.co/imdj
Why Choose Our Courses?
- Expert Guidance: We bring years of experience and insights to help you navigate the complexities of love and marriage as certified marriage mentors.
- Practical Tools: You’ll gain actionable strategies and techniques you can immediately apply to your relationships.
- Personalized Support: We offer a supportive community and opportunities for personalized guidance.
Ready to invest in your love life?
Go ahead and visit the links:
Before the Aisle for Singles and Engaged: https://selar.co/BTA
After the Aisle for Married Couples: https://selar.co/imdj